did jesus die for all?

So here is the thing if Jesus died for the whole world in general then in theroy all sins are covered and nobody has to repent and come to Jesus.(which is not true) but for this little argument to me noncalvinist friend it is. So Jesus died to pay for all sins. If Jesus dies for all sins then he died for not asking Jesus to forgive my sins and thus I do not have to repent to go to heaven. Y because when he died he paid for me and all my sins. Now then everyone in this would go to heaven. A paid sin is a paid sin unless there is double paymen t needed. Let me repeat If Jesus died for everyone everyone's sin is paid for

BUT If Jesus only died for the people who he elected then the logic is that if you are not in Jesus Jesus does not pay your sins and you are not saved. If Jesus did not die for you then your sin payment must be paid by you and it is declared that if you died with a unforgiven sin then you pay in hell forever. I look at romans 9 and I think this is closer to the truth.

Let me end with this I do not know nor anyone knows if Jesus died for you however the bible said that Jesus will not honor your call if you want him to forgive you and make you right. If there is so much of a tug Jesus placed that inside of you and he is calling you to be his. Do not resist that tug ask Jesus to reveal himself and ask him for forgiveness because If you call on Jesus he hears you and will save you. He is willing to save you and willing to forgive sins because He paid for them. )Please come to Jesus today